“The focus has been, almost exclusively, on the how to tie, rather than the why we tie. And by why, I don’t mean “why we use a munter hutch here, rather than there.” I mean motivation. I mean passion. I mean desire. I mean fantasy. I mean heart.”
This is an article by Zetsu Nawa edited on KinbakuToday. While the article is referred to the world bondage scene, I think it is a good analysis of the actual Italian enviroment. I hope you will appreciate it and – maybe – it will help you to remember the primary reason becouse you tie someone.