Rope and Trust

"Trust, unlike consent, is also relational. It is built over time. It has degrees and granularity. It evolves. It is fragile and requires nurturing and patience. All things that the Western mind has trouble with. Trust relationships are never black and white. On the other hand, consent is binary. Either you have it or you … Continue reading Rope and Trust

Quelle Surprise or “I Tie and I Know Things”

"The focus has been, almost exclusively, on the how to tie, rather than the why we tie. And by why, I don’t mean “why we use a munter hutch here, rather than there.” I mean motivation. I mean passion. I mean desire. I mean fantasy. I mean heart." This is an article by Zetsu Nawa edited … Continue reading Quelle Surprise or “I Tie and I Know Things”